“Community warms us, individuality illuminates us.”
C. G. Jung
“Community warms us, individuality illuminates us.”
C. G. Jung
The Importance of Human Connections
Being human means, above all, living in relationship with others.
Building connections means taking part in an essential process that anchors us in existence. These connections fulfil a fundamental need, yet they can also bring us into conflict with differing values, perceptions, or expectations, including those that shape the relationship itself. In this sense, being in a relationship means both allowing ourselves to be carried by a natural dynamic and navigating the emotional complexities that arise from it.
Our relationships take shape at the intersection of each person’s individuality and their sense of belonging to a group.
In this context, each partner’s personal and emotional history inevitably encounters the other’s, sometimes giving rise to disagreements or crises that call into question the nature or the very purpose of the relationship. How these conflicts are managed depends on the communication patterns within the couple, family, or relationship in question.
Working with couples, parents and children, siblings, or friends means focusing on tensions within their interactions, whether these stem from individual distress or difficulties within the relationship itself.
Certain significant life events, whether joyful or challenging (the birth of a child, a departure, a move, career changes, infidelity, bereavement, and so on), can disrupt the balance of a relationship and require the bonds between people to be redefined.
Sometimes, a relationship gradually deteriorates through a lack of care, leading to emotional distance, misunderstandings, or recurring conflicts. This can result in unproductive or hostile communication, a loss of trust or empathy, and often calls for a restructuring of the relationship to restore balance.
If you feel the need to move beyond these relational impasses and transform negative patterns, I am here to support you in building a new dynamic within your couple or family.
My role is not to judge or arbitrate. I take an integrative approach that considers both individuals and the relationships they build with one another.
Psychodynamic Couples Psychotherapy
This therapeutic approach explores the conscious and unconscious dynamics that influence a couple’s relationship. It seeks to understand each partner’s emotions and identity, the quality of their interactions, and how they manage the conflicts that may arise.
More specifically, this form of therapy focuses on:
- The emotional conflicts experienced by each partner individually.
- The relationship between partners, as well as their interactions with their wider family environment.
- The expectations, roles, and functions that each partner attributes to themselves and to the other, and how these shape the overall functioning of the couple.
During sessions, you will be guided in exploring and expressing your emotions, beliefs, and expectations of yourself, your partner, and your relationship. Therapy takes place with both partners present. The frequency of sessions will be agreed upon together after the initial meetings, taking your needs and availability into account.
You may wish to:
- Rediscover how to communicate your needs within your relationship.
- Find a balance between your roles as parents and your relationship as a couple.
- Rebuild trust within your relationship.
- Move away from power struggles and develop more compassionate, empathetic, and non-judgmental communication.
- Redefine your respective roles and the spaces you share in a more balanced way.
- Accept certain frustrations and understand that differences in aspirations or values are not necessarily obstacles.
- Recognise your partner’s individuality and family history without allowing them to hinder the growth of your relationship.
- Reconnect with intimacy and rediscover your sense of closeness and complicity.
- Revitalise your sex life.
- Or, if necessary, consider separation while safeguarding your children’s well-being and maintaining a constructive co-parenting relationship.
Couples therapy is not covered by the French national health insurance system (Sécurité sociale), although some complementary health insurance providers (mutuelles) may cover part or all of the cost of your sessions.
“Love is not only a feeling; it is also an art.”
H. Balzac
Family Therapy
The family plays an essential role as a source of security and support, passing on values and providing a structured environment for its members. It is a space where communication and social interaction are learned, while allowing each individual to grow and thrive. Within this dynamic, the various relationships between parents, children, and siblings coexist and enrich one another.
Systemic family therapy focuses on the network of relationships within the family, considering each individual within their relational context. Its aim is to understand and transform family dynamics in order to address difficulties and improve collective well-being.
These therapies primarily seek to bring about positive change in challenging situations, without placing responsibility on a single family member or on the family as a whole. Each individual, with their own beliefs, lifestyle, and perspectives, is respected, and the therapeutic process is tailored to the complexity of each situation.
Sessions aim to reduce stress, ease tensions, and provide ongoing support to families over the longer term when necessary.
Family therapy sessions are not covered by the French national health insurance system (Sécurité sociale), although some complementary health insurance providers (mutuelles) may cover part or all of the cost of your sessions.
“Everything that irritates us about others can lead us to an understanding of ourselves.”
C. G. Jung